i need uh nerd relationship advice what not to do on dates, how to date a human, how to date a nerd cause that's new for me too, differences between dating a girl and a boy since i only ever went out with girls before and my only actual girlfriend was literal fire soooo just realizing i'm in over my head here
[ Ah, a forbidden tier. Even Ford can guess what that probably is. ]
So 5 or 6 would be a 3rd of the way through the tiers, and 8 would be about halfway. I think touching someone's stomach would be a similar degree of progression through a human's stages of intimacy, in that case.
It's hard to say what horn touching would correlate to without knowing the species, but I imagine it was something quite personal. Is that correct?
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cryptograms) wrote2020-09-06 03:13 pm
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nerd relationship advice
what not to do on dates, how to date a human, how to date a nerd cause that's new for me too, differences between dating a girl and a boy since i only ever went out with girls before and my only actual girlfriend was literal fire soooo
just realizing i'm in over my head here
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I can't say my dating experience is terribly extensive, but I do have some knowledge about inter-species relationships.
[ A pause. ]
And same-sex relationships.
[ Another pause. ]
And it's fair to call me a 'nerd'.
[ ... Wait, is he actually well-equipped to answer this question? ]
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tell me all your secrets!!
[Fern please.]
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Let's try a different angle. Is there anything in particular you think you need help with?
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since you've dated a lot of nonhumans and you're human
is there any difference in the tiers???
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I'm not sure what you mean by tiers.
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the first one is hugging, the second one is kissing
Jake told me touching all 15 feet of her stomach is
5? 6? i don't remember
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Humans have metaphors like that, but I'm not sure Varian would know any of them given his time period of origin.
I think touching someone's stomach would be considered fairly intimate by most standards. How many tiers are there total?
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huh, i never thought about that before, and i haven't asked him
15
tier 8 is horn touching, which i think is a rainicorn-specific thing
i'm not sure what 15 is, he told me to stay away from it when i asked
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So 5 or 6 would be a 3rd of the way through the tiers, and 8 would be about halfway. I think touching someone's stomach would be a similar degree of progression through a human's stages of intimacy, in that case.
It's hard to say what horn touching would correlate to without knowing the species, but I imagine it was something quite personal. Is that correct?
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not that
i'm really thinking about getting that far
we're still trying to figure out kissing
probably, i never asked him for deets and i've never dated a rainicorn